Knowledge of Child Development

Parents know their children best—their unique behaviors, interests, and abilities. But no parent can be an expert on all aspects of infant, child, and teenage development or the most effective ways to support a child at each stage. When parents are not aware of normal developmental milestones, interpret their child’s behaviors in a negative way, or do not know how to respond to and effectively manage a child’s behavior, they can become frustrated and may resort to harsh discipline or emotional withdrawal.

There is extensive research linking healthy child development to effective parenting. Children thrive when parents provide not only affection, but also respectful communication and listening, consistent rules and expectations, and safe opportunities that promote independence. Successful parenting fosters psychological adjustment, helps children succeed in school, encourages curiosity about the world, and motivates children to achieve. Parenting skills are not static; as children grow and mature, parents need to change the way they respond to their children’s needs. In addition, parenting styles need to be adjusted for each child’s individual temperament and unique circumstances.

Knowledge of parenting and child development also changes over time. Many parenting practices that were common only a generation ago—laying children to sleep on their stomachs, for example—are not recommended today. New research, social expectations, social structures, and even laws have combined to make parenting a different task than it was even 20 years ago. Parents need access to information that is grounded in the latest research.

MORE (please see page 27 of the Strengthening Families and Communities guide)

From:  Strengthening Families and Communities: 2011 Resource Guide